Dina Oganova
Frozen Waves | All my childhood I was listening stories how some boy/man with friends were stealing a girl, to get a married after her. Sometimes girls didn’t even know who will be their future husbands and they didn’t have choice and decided to stay . It was a big shame to come back home after stealing. Everybody knows that you are not virgin anymore ,so who will marry you after that?!
Family didn’t wanted to get them back, because now you have a new “owner”.
It was “normal” in 90ies to Georgia, but I realize that its still happened somehow…
M/18 (01) "I was kidnapped by a man who I never seen before, with his friends they put me in the car and took out from the city. I lost consciousness. When i woke up, we have been in the forest and he told me that i have to be his wife, otherwise everyone will know that Im not virgin anymore. I was against it and thought that my father will come and bring me home, but...Family didn't wanted to do that.
It was a shame for them and they asked me to stay...
K/35 (05-06) My best friend was in love with a girl, who didnt love him, so we decided to kidnap her. We meet her next to the school and put her in the car and went to village house. They have been together that night. Next morning their families were sitting together and celebrated their wedding day. They are very happy now and have two children.
A/42 (11) My husband kidnap me ,when i was 17.
I got pregnant in the first night, but I'm really very happy with him and thankful to my family that they didnt get me back ,because now i could be alone and nobody wanted to marry me. Who needs already used woman?
When you start to create a new family, its not necessary to love your husband. When u will live with person for a long time you will get used to him, will have children and love will come also.
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